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The gemara (Shabbos 23b) writes that if one has only enough funds for either kiddush or Shabbos candles, Shabbos candles take precedence because they serve to enhance shalom bayis. The Nishmas Adam (klal 68) asks: why do we need the justification of shalom bayis as a reason to favor hadlakas neiros?-- there is a much simpler reason to do so. The gemara in many places has a rule that "ain ma'avirin al hamitzos" -- one cannot pass over and ignore one mitzvah in order to fulfill another one. Since the mitzvah of lighting shabbos candles applies while it is yet day and the mitzvah of kiddush does not apply until night, withholding funds necessary for the earlier mitzvah of hadlakah to fulfill the later mitzvah of kiddush would violate this well known principle.
R' Yosef Engel answers that the mitzvah of hadlakah itself in essence applies only at night, but since it is impossible to light candles at night they are lit earlier on Friday afternoon. The hadlakah is just a hechsher mitzvah to establish candles burning on Shabbos. If not for the justification of shalom bayis this hechsher of lighting would be no more significant than the hechsher mitzvah of buying wine for kiddush.
This answer of R"Y Engel contradicts a Brisker torah which we discussed before on the blog. The Rambam records the mitzvah of hadlakas neiros Shabbos both in chapter 5 as well as in chapter 30 of hilchos Shabbos. The Brisker Rav explained that there is no redundancy in the Rambam; rather, there is a double kiyum mitzvah in lighting shabbos candles. The Rambam mentions hadlakah as an aspect of kavod Shabbos, of preparing and welcoming the Shabbos by our actions before Shabbos, and the Rambam repeats the need for candles to be burning as an aspect of oneg Shabbos, the mitzvah of enhancing Shabbos on Shabbos itself. If this is correct than the lighting of candles on Friday is not just a hechsher mitzvah to have light at the table on Shabbos, but is a mitzvah act in itself.
Acc. to the Brisker Rav, does the kiyum of kavod kick in right away, or does it wait until Shabbos. Maybe if it's the latter, then there is no din of ein ma'avirin al hamitzvos.
ReplyDeleteBetter answer: The din of ein ma'avirin only applies when the mitzvah presents itself. This doesn't apply when you are in the store for 2 reasons:
ReplyDelete1)It's not the zman for neiros yet, and maybe the gemara is discussing more common cases.
2)Even if you are buying neiros after plag, since you don't actually own the neiros, by purchasing kiddush, you aren't being ma'aveir. It's like the din by tadir.
YD - As a general matter, the halach of kavod shabbos applies before shabbos starts.
ReplyDeleteMaybe the din shalom bayis is the din oneg shabas. Like the chazal (i just made up) "im ein shalom ein oneg"
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